This has been comming for a while but it seems a messy divorce is on the cards for me. I may not frequent this forum as much in the near future but I will still put my 2 cents in if I feel necessary.
It will be difficult and it appears that the only person I can not protect my assets from is my wife (yes I know she is entitled to half and I will honour that).
Short term pain for long trem gain.
Take careCATA
Asset Protection Specialist
[email protected]Hi Cata. Don’t know you from a bar of soap, but am always sad to hear news like this. Hope all goes well for you and your wife. Don’t know if you have children, but if so, try to stay civil for their sake.
I cannot even begin to imagine the stress involved in what you may go through, but if you have tried to make things work, and cannot, then at least you will both have a chance at a fresh start. Probably better than sticking around for the kids’ sake, which I have seen often enough to know that it is not always the best course either.
Good luck, and remember, there will be a light at the end of the tunnel.
Wylie.
Thats no good at all Cata!
As someone who is just about to get married,I cant even imagine what that may be like for u guys.
I will definately pray that God gives u both the grace and peace to get through the situation for sure.
Hopefully we do get to hear from u again soon!All the best man
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I’m sorry for what has happened. Your posts mean a lot of people like me starting out.
It’s human to feel hard done by, I can’t begin to think for a moment if it happens to me and what I would do. Maybe it’s time to move forward and know there will be support if you look at the right places.
Chin up.
CT
Thanks for the online support guys and gals.
I have good days and bad days, but am looking forward to a brighter future.CATA
Asset Protection Specialist
[email protected]Hello Cata
I don’t know you personally but always value your posts.
Very sorry to hear that your going through a rough patch just now but I want to assure you that there is life after divorce. The best way to get through this period is to be as kind and as fair with each other as possible irrespective of who did what to whom and why.
Remeber that what seems important today (who gets the punch bowl set …. just joking [smiling] ) will seem irrelevant in a few years.
A wise friend just sent me the following advise so I thought I would share it with you.
“things work out best for those who make the best of the way things work out”.
Stay strong
Elka
Hey Cata,
Just remember, in two years time you will look back & realise it aint all that bad. Trust me…….. Been there done that.
Hope all goes well.[cigar]
David
Hey Cata,
From memory the Divorce Rate in Australia is at about 52% at the moment so you’re not the Lone Ranger.
Knowing you from the Forums, PM’s and E-Mail your’e a strong person, I know its an axiom, but “Time heals all Wounds”..wish you all the best mate !
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